not sure if your analogy is an inside joke or not cuz im not following
but to respond to what i assume you are referring too: im not to keen of W6 right now, so joining a faction there might be a good way to boost my interest. H3 had expressed interest so i approached them first. me joining is obviously a problem from H2's perspective so thats why there is all teh peace-type talks. i hope the rumors spread within H2 that its because im out of faith or whatever and i need to farm, but in reality i am a farmer and i like to farm
having 1-3 villages and trolling on weekends isnt that fun to me, mainly because it cost me so many crowns to do it right. plus, the people i want to hit do a good job making it hard to do so, and the people i do not want to hit do a good job of constantly * me off hahaha